alphanextdoor | chuck freeman
There are so many articles about dating in magazines, websites, books with different seducers and pick-up artists selling their own recipe for picking up women. This is a huge business! I guess it is because there are increasing needs out there for this kind of stuff.
It’s no wonder with this feminist brain-washing propaganda that is constantly being broadcasted by the media … Nowadays, guys don’t even know how to attain even the most basic objectives in their lives, that is, to get the woman they want!
My approach is going to be a very easy, require no complicated technique, no system or pick-up artist skills to learn.
Just the good old 100% natural way of doing it!
Minimal requirements
Be clean, smell good and have good breath. Nobody, especially women, wants to be touched, hugged or kissed by someone who looks like a bum, or better yet, a person who stinks! You don’t need to dress up like you’re going to an interview, just be sure that your hygiene is A1. If you wish your little soldier to become her favourite lollipop, it might make sense to trim that jungle down there … This is just common sense…
First, choose a woman you really want.
This point is critical. How many guys do you think try to get the girl that their parents, friends, co-workers or society in general would approve? I will tell you a secret now: it’s not about them. It’s about what you really want!
Think for a second. Suppose that you could have a date with any girl you want, and then have sex with her without anyone knowing about it. What she would look like? Maybe you feel exotic tonight… those little South Asian chicks are awesome! Or maybe you’d like to try this beautiful black chick that feel like wild panther.
Try to get to the bottom of what you really want. Often-times guys say stupid shit like: I want to date an independent and smart woman… sorry to say that, but this is weird because it sounds just like the rebound of the feminist propaganda… really these sounds like bullshit to me!
Why the hell would your first requirement for a date or a girlfriend be smart and independent? Are you planning to talk to her about the economy or, better yet, working on quantum mechanics?
You have a father, friends, co-workers and business partners for this kind of stuff.
I mean why the hell are you dating?
For real, stop bullshitting yourself for a moment.
Maybe if you are heterosexual, the correct answer would be something like:
- I like to see, touch and kiss a beautiful and sexy woman.
- I like this warm feeling of ”attraction and love” that I have when I am with a hot girl.
- I like the feeling of “being the man”.
- I like the excitement of bringing this beauty into my bed.
- I like to have sex with a beautiful woman.
What is good about being with the women that you REALLY want for the REAL reason is sexual polarity!
When the man is the man and the woman is the woman, that’s when the fire sparks!
You’re a man, your objective is to have sex with beautiful women while enjoying the beauty, the colour, the light, the love that come from her feminine features. Why the hell her point of view on international politics would matter?
How a dominant and driven woman that constantly tries to act like a man, who is constantly focusing on her career in management, on being logical, being strong or independent, or on repressing her feminine qualities all day long in order to become “equal” to men would ever bring something good beside money to a date?
Stop lying to yourself and hook up with the girl you are dreaming about!
Why? Because when you’re going out with the kind of woman that you’re really attracted to, it’s just going to be awesome!
Second, when you date her, just do what YOU want!
Just before a date I’m not nervous, I’m not asking myself what I’m going to do to make this work or how I’m going to bring this date to the second base. The worst thing you can do is think about how hopefully you’re not going to screw this up or whether she is going to like me or not, or better yet, whether she is going to like this or that.
Just before a date I’m so excited that the only thing I can think about is: damn, this is going to be so fucking great!
I’M going to have some great time, doing what I WANT with this beautiful woman that I HAVE chosen only for MY PLEASURE.
How can you go wrong with that?
Forget about all this ‘dating’ mindset because all you do is just inviting her to hang out with you and have fun that evening. She is invited to join you in what you like to do! Please don’t tell me that what you like to do is to grab a meal at Starbucks, having a coffee and chat about what your hobbies are, your job, her job, her family, politics or other monotonous things like that.
I’m going to give more ideas about what’s awesome to do on a date in another post, but for now let’s just focus on the mindset here.
If you’re about to die soon and you have one last date, will it be the “coffee shop date”?
Come one, please kill me right away!
Women want men to take the lead, because they are followers!
They are going to have their best fun, doing what YOU like to do. Because that’s what they do, they follow! There is nothing more annoying for a woman to have a date with a no-balls, kiss-ass who only tries to please her.
But check this out! If what you really like to do is to be romantic and chivalrous, and you like to buy her dinner, bring her flowers and all the classic dating stuff from the 40’s. Well, it’s still going to work great because you do what you like to do and enjoy doing it!
You’re not doing it for her; you’re doing it for you!
This is the key, right here!
You cannot believe what kind of crazy stupid shit I did when dating, and it always turned out great just like magic. In fact, everything I do on a date is prohibited by pick-up artists and dating specialists …but for me … it always work! 100% of the time!
I remember I was having a great time on a beautiful summer day in a nice park on the side of the river with the most beautiful girl I have ever dated and …. feeling just overwhelmed me and I just bit her ass. Yeah! First date, just like that. She had this incredibly perfect ass, and at one point we were kind of alone kissing. I rolled down her pants, and I took a generous bite out of her ass!
Only one word: Awesome!
I want to be the reason she look down at her phone and smile. Then walk into a pole.
With a date like that believe me that the deal is sealed! Because if you kiss her, chances are that you are going to have a second date … and then yadee yadee yada .. Right! If the girl you have chosen is of your taste, and you do what you like to do, be sure in most case that you are going to kiss her before the end of the date. 1 + 1 always give 2.
Of course, you respect the law and you respect her as a human being. You’re not a maniac! Again common sense here please! There is a difference between being bold and being a psycho!
Worst case, if she doesn’t like it, she slaps you in the face … Well … splendid! It will still be classified as an epic date! I can’t wait to tell that story to the boys.
Guys, honestly there are not better ways to know if she really likes you than by being 100% you! That’s why this approach never fails, because if she likes you, it’s going to work, guaranteed. If she ever runs, believe me, better now than later!
The benefits of dating me: you will be dating me. I could go on, but I think I have made my point.
So … very simple, choose the woman you truly desire and do with her what you really want, let it flow and enjoy!
Until next post …
